I was thinking of a much heard of statement, "Don't judge me..." and, "You can't judge me..." and "Only God can judge me..." and I thought, what if we let go of the paranoia and angst we sometimes get over the thought of being judged, and, when we are judged, responded with an earnest "Go ahead and judge me..." without taking offence.
Personally, I think such a response - especially if felt in one's own heart; if we truly didn't care about being judged - would be most freeing... Let 'them' judge us. So what if they do. Why is their opinion of us so important when their opinion is obviously not born of love?
Let's try it... :D But don't hate them. Don't judge them in return!! Rather, it would be best for you if you simply became indifferent to those who like to play judge, jury and executioner, and got on with your life.
Let me know how it goes for you. :D